In my last post, I encouraged regular meetings between the priest and small group leaders. While these meetings are important (essential really) they are not sufficient. Effective lay leadership also requires regular that is to say, at least quarterly, communication with the parish council and at least an annual report to the whole parish. Not only does this help keep the group from focusing on itself, it also keeps the larger community aware of what is happening with the various small group ministries. It also, I should add, helps build these small group ministries–people won’t participate in a ministry they don’t know exists or, if they know it exists, understand. Remember, that a formation group is what sociologists call a “mediating structure” between the wider realities of parish, diocese, the Church or culture on the one hand, and the particular reality of one’s daily life. The small group is then inherently a place of some tension and there is always the risk of the group become an occasion for isolation from either pole of the members’ lives.
Small groups and especially spiritual formation groups that meet on a regular basis for common prayer and shared reflection can be a great source of strength and encouragement for not only the laity but also the clergy. Precisely because their focus is vocational and ascetical, or if one prefers, Christian discipleship. They provide a means to help people discover the joyful challenge of not simply being called Christian, but actually being Christian.
Great rewards however require great effort and risks. Effective small group ministry in generally, and spiritual formation groups particularly, don’t simply happen. Nor are they without their own possibilities for failure. This is in the nature of the Christian life isn’t it? The angel of the Lord instructed St John the Theologian to write these words to the Church Laodicea:
No question, the words are harsh. But again, in what other area of life do we succeed without effort and at the risk of failure? To my knowledge none.
In my next post I want to offer what I think is an exciting ecumenical opportunity for the spiritual formation of the laity that my own parish will be undertaking later this fall.
Until then, and as always, your comments, questions and criticisms are not only welcomed, they are actively encouraged by me.